Kim Dare, a prolific erotica writer and wonderful human being, has graciously agreed to answer some questions on being a writer. Kim and I met a year ago online; we share the same core group of critiquers
Since then, I've watched in awe how Kim creates fresh new novellas, novels, and short stories in the same time that it takes me to compose an email to a friend.
Enjoy!
KB – What got you started writing romance and erotica?
Kim – I don’t think I ever sat down and decided that was what I wanted to write. It just happened. No matter what genre I tried to write, the story always ended up being about a relationship between the two main characters – so it was definitely the romance part of the equation that came first. As for the erotic side of things, my characters were having sex. I couldn’t see any good reason not to write about that part of their relationship along with everything else.
KB – What was the reaction of your family and friends when they discovered what you were writing?
Kim – All my family know what I write for a living. I’m sure I should have some story about how I tried to keep it a secret for years, and how horrible everyone thought it was when they finally found out. But, to be honest, I’ve never met anyone who has a problem with it.
KB – Do you have a favourite book that you read often?
Kim – I’m a huge Terry Pratchett fan, especially of his City Watch stories. I try to go back and read my favourites whenever I get time. I revisit Jane Austen fairly often too, usually on talking book.
KB – Did you always want to be a writer? What prompted you to write your first published book?
Kim – I’ve always made up stories, I’ve been jotting them down since I was nine. Writing for a living was always my dream job, but I knew the chances of making a living out of it was slim, so I tried to focus on gaining some qualifications and making a sensible back up plan first.
Strangely enough, things only actually started to be accepted after I stopped trying to write for publication. A couple of years ago, when I first started to take my writing more seriously, I took a leap of faith and stopped trying to work out what publishers wanted or what readers wanted. I began writing what I really wanted to write and everything clicked into place for me. At that time, it never occurred to me that anyone would want to publish what I chose to write – I’m glad I was wrong!
KB – What is your advice to new writers?
Kim – Something that really helped me was Nanowrimo (www.nanowrimo.com), it took away the pressure to try to write a perfect first draft. Sometimes the only way to stay even vaguely sane is to just get something down on paper and worry about editing it later.
Apart from that – I found setting (and keeping!) word count goals worked for me. 1000 words a day, every day. Three years later, I still keep to that goal and it’s still helping.
KB – What was the most surprising thing about being published?
Kim – I was surprised how easy it was to forget that the most important thing is the actual writing – and how easy it was to lose track of how much I love writing in the process.
It’s incredibly easy to get caught up in trying to promote the books or in worrying about reviews and publication slots and a million other little things. Before you know it, the release of a new book isn’t something to celebrate, it’s just a dozen different items added to your ‘to do’ list. Website update, Yahoo groups, blog… Sometimes you have to remind yourself to just stop worrying about it all and enjoy the fact you get to spend your life doing something you love.
KB – Chainsaw, tire iron, or shot gun?
Kim – As a Terry Pratchett fan, I can’t help picturing the look on Reg Shoe’s face at the idea Zombies should be killed off at all! “The silent majority wants dead rights!” Lol.
KB – In a zombie movie, which character would you be?
Kim – Is there a character that’s so caught up in what they are doing they don’t even notice the zombies are there until it’s too late? That would probably be me!
You can read all about Kim Dare on her blog. Her lastest e-book, Blood Slave, can be purchased at total-e-bound.
-Krista
Tuesday, December 8, 2009
A quick apology to my readers
I'd like to apologize for not posting for a month. It's out of character for me, I know, and I appreciated the emails asking if I had been eaten by zombies. I'm happy to report that I have avoided all zombie attacks.
November turned out to be a crazy month, with NaNo, workload, and vacation.
I'm back to my regular schedule of 2-3 posts a month. Feel free to use a cattle prod on me if I am a little delayed ever again.
Krista
November turned out to be a crazy month, with NaNo, workload, and vacation.
I'm back to my regular schedule of 2-3 posts a month. Feel free to use a cattle prod on me if I am a little delayed ever again.
Krista
Friday, November 6, 2009
Internship AND an upcoming author interview
I have taken an internship position at Bards and Sages, a wonderful indie group that publish a flash fiction (<2000 word stories) magazine and who also create roleplaying games. I'm very excited to be working with these folks.
Trivia: Bards and Sages Quarterly gave me my first ever acceptance just over a year ago. I was at work when I opened the email and proceeded to squeal (not a normal sound for my vocal cords) and jump up and down (again, not normal Krista behaviour, as it attracts zombies).
In other news, writer Kim Dare has graciously agreed to an interview here on my blog. She is a recent recruit to the zombie resistance movement and will be talking about her new book and what it's like being a prolific erotica and romance writer.
Stay tuned!
Trivia: Bards and Sages Quarterly gave me my first ever acceptance just over a year ago. I was at work when I opened the email and proceeded to squeal (not a normal sound for my vocal cords) and jump up and down (again, not normal Krista behaviour, as it attracts zombies).
In other news, writer Kim Dare has graciously agreed to an interview here on my blog. She is a recent recruit to the zombie resistance movement and will be talking about her new book and what it's like being a prolific erotica and romance writer.
Stay tuned!
Sunday, November 1, 2009
More Shameless Self-Promotion
Official annoucement from Bards and Sages Quarterly regarding Space Sucks:
Winners of the First B&S Quarterly Story
Bards and Sages Publishing announces the winners of its first Bards &Sages Quarterly Reader's Choice Story Awards. This award highlights the best of each issue, and honors the writers that helped make the Quarterly's first year in print successful. The selected stories truly demonstrate the amazing variety of tales found in the journal each issue.
January 2009 issue
Witch Kindling, by Rebecca Nazar
April 2009 issue
Fresh Produce, Aaron Polson
July 2009 issue
Space Sucks, Krista Ball
October 2009 issue
Lord Braugh's Dessert, John Jasper Owens
Author of the Year: Eugie Foster
Thanks to all of our wonderful readers that took the time to vote for our first Story Awards.
Tuesday, October 27, 2009
Shameless self-promotion
My short story, "Space Sucks" won Bards and Sages Quarterly best story in their July 09 magazine contest. The story will now appear in an anthology (collection of short stories) to be published in 2010. Thanks to everyone who voted.
Saturday, October 24, 2009
Is Rejection Always a Bad Thing?
Being rejected stings. Sometimes, it downright hurts. It doesn’t matter if we are being rejected for a date, a job, or a six-figure book contract; rejection is never pleasant. It shakes your confidence. You call yourself names for having even tried to succeed. You obsess over every single word in the rejection and use it to berate yourself.
Rejection sucks.
Or, does it?
My first rejection was surprisingly encouraging. “This was a fun story and I enjoyed reading it. I just feel that it’s missing the oomph needed for our magazine. This kind of story would do better as a longer story. ” I agonized over the word “missing." Then, it dawned on me that she had enjoyed reading my story. For her needs as an editor, she needed it as a longer story. It had nothing to do with me.
I ended up submitting it to another magazine who specialized in short fiction and was promptly accepted. In the end, it was her “I enjoyed reading it” that gave me the courage to try again.
You have to ask yourself why you are being rejected. “The editor is a jerk” isn’t generally the reason. Usually, it’s one of a combination of not doing the research, problems with the writing, and/or it just wasn’t a good fit.
It surprises me that people still don’t do their research before sending off submissions. Every market has different needs, wants, and likes. If an editor wants your query letter on pink and purple striped paper with hand-drawn balloons, do it. If they want ten spaces between sections, do it.
Further, don’t send queries and/or completes without knowing if your story fits what that market is looking for. If a magazine isn’t accepting fantasy, why waste your time (and theirs!) sending your sword-and-sorcery novella? If a publisher is only accepting novella-length space opera, why send your 200k word western? Know thy market.
A great starting point is Duotrope.com. They are a free website that offers an array of markets, along with some cool reporting tools such as reported acceptance rates and average response times.
If it is your writing, this one plain stings. Nothing I can say will fix how much this one hurts. Though writing is a lonely profession, it helps to seek out a few beta readers to help offer critiques and suggestions. What makes sense to you might leave another person completely lost. In return, you can offer them help on their manuscripts and, together, plot world domination. Or at least a few publishing credits under your belt.
And finally, sometimes you’ve done everything right and are still rejected. Your story is witty and clever. Your margins are exactly 1.34 centimetres. Your query letter is snappy and even includes the name of your favourite superhero, which you saw on the editor’s blog as her key that you’ve done your research. And still she rejects you.
Here’s the thing – it isn’t personal. In the rejection letter I mentioned above, that magazine buys two flash fictions a year. That’s it. With the hundreds of submissions that they get every month, the odds are pretty good that they’ll find plenty of stories that they like but have to turn down. The editor still liked my story and I was able to find another market for it.
In other words, don’t give up.
Rejection sucks.
Or, does it?
My first rejection was surprisingly encouraging. “This was a fun story and I enjoyed reading it. I just feel that it’s missing the oomph needed for our magazine. This kind of story would do better as a longer story. ” I agonized over the word “missing." Then, it dawned on me that she had enjoyed reading my story. For her needs as an editor, she needed it as a longer story. It had nothing to do with me.
I ended up submitting it to another magazine who specialized in short fiction and was promptly accepted. In the end, it was her “I enjoyed reading it” that gave me the courage to try again.
You have to ask yourself why you are being rejected. “The editor is a jerk” isn’t generally the reason. Usually, it’s one of a combination of not doing the research, problems with the writing, and/or it just wasn’t a good fit.
It surprises me that people still don’t do their research before sending off submissions. Every market has different needs, wants, and likes. If an editor wants your query letter on pink and purple striped paper with hand-drawn balloons, do it. If they want ten spaces between sections, do it.
Further, don’t send queries and/or completes without knowing if your story fits what that market is looking for. If a magazine isn’t accepting fantasy, why waste your time (and theirs!) sending your sword-and-sorcery novella? If a publisher is only accepting novella-length space opera, why send your 200k word western? Know thy market.
A great starting point is Duotrope.com. They are a free website that offers an array of markets, along with some cool reporting tools such as reported acceptance rates and average response times.
If it is your writing, this one plain stings. Nothing I can say will fix how much this one hurts. Though writing is a lonely profession, it helps to seek out a few beta readers to help offer critiques and suggestions. What makes sense to you might leave another person completely lost. In return, you can offer them help on their manuscripts and, together, plot world domination. Or at least a few publishing credits under your belt.
And finally, sometimes you’ve done everything right and are still rejected. Your story is witty and clever. Your margins are exactly 1.34 centimetres. Your query letter is snappy and even includes the name of your favourite superhero, which you saw on the editor’s blog as her key that you’ve done your research. And still she rejects you.
Here’s the thing – it isn’t personal. In the rejection letter I mentioned above, that magazine buys two flash fictions a year. That’s it. With the hundreds of submissions that they get every month, the odds are pretty good that they’ll find plenty of stories that they like but have to turn down. The editor still liked my story and I was able to find another market for it.
In other words, don’t give up.
Tuesday, October 13, 2009
Why it's important to proof-read AND have beta readers
I've been reading through Tranquility's Blaze, doing the final "once over" to ensure that everything is A-Ok.
"I'm sure it's fine," I say to myself. "After all, I've already done this."
Most of them were small things, caused by picking the wrong option from the spell checker. But here is my favourite:
Jiminy Crickets! We bring fries to war. No wonder we lose all the time.
Lesson of the day, folks. Proof-readers are your friendz.
"I'm sure it's fine," I say to myself. "After all, I've already done this."
Most of them were small things, caused by picking the wrong option from the spell checker. But here is my favourite:
Their black powder. Our black powder. Their fires. Our fries. Their screams. Our screams.
Jiminy Crickets! We bring fries to war. No wonder we lose all the time.
Lesson of the day, folks. Proof-readers are your friendz.
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